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How to write an apology email – Saying sorry to your friend

Syllabus topic 5: How to write an apology email – Saying sorry to your friend

140–190 words · Email. You promised to help a friend prepare a club event but forgot to arrive. Write an apology that takes responsibility, explains the situation briefly and offers a specific way to repair the problem.

Your writing task

Write 140–190 words. You promised to help a friend prepare a club event but forgot to arrive. Write an apology that takes responsibility, explains the situation briefly and offers a specific way to repair the problem.

Writing focus

An explanation should not cancel the apology. Keep the focus on your friend's inconvenience rather than on how bad you feel.

Your progress

Ready to move on?

Mark this lesson as studied when you have finished the explanation.

My plan

Plan, write, revise

Suggested structure

  1. Apologise directly and acknowledge the effect.
  2. Explain briefly without shifting responsibility.
  3. Offer a realistic repair and respect your friend's response.

Useful language

  • I'm really sorry that…
  • I should have…
  • I'd like to make it up to you by…

Use these phrases if they fit your ideas. There is no single correct response.

0 words · Suggested: 140–190Restoring your draft…

140 more words to reach the suggested range.

Review your draft

This is guided self-review, not automatic grading. The word range is a guide. Editing your text clears the checklist so you can review the new version; previous lesson completion stays in your history.

See an illustrative response

Hi Emma, I'm really sorry that I didn't come to help you set up the club event yesterday. You were depending on me to arrange the chairs and welcome the first guests, and my absence left you with extra work. I put the event in my calendar for the wrong day. That explains what happened, but I should have checked your message instead of relying on my memory. I understand why you were upset when I finally called. I'd like to make it up to you by helping with the follow-up jobs. I can collect the borrowed signs on Saturday and return them to the community centre. I can also help organise the photographs if that would be useful. You don't need to decide immediately. Please tell me what would actually help, rather than feeling you have to accept my suggestion. I value our friendship and will be more careful about commitments in future. I'm sorry again, Alex

This example illustrates structure and tone and may be shorter than the suggested range. Develop your own response.

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